Founder
Founder of Clarity House Press and author of evidence-based trauma recovery resources. His work combines intensive clinical research with lived experience of narcissistic abuse and trauma recovery. After recognizing a critical gap in accessible, research-backed resources for survivors of narcissistic abuse and high-conflict family situations, Bandy created the materials he wished had existed.
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Men with C-PTSD often look fine — until they don't. Masculine socialization masks trauma as anger, overwork, and emotional shutdown.
Research shows the father wound tends to repeat across generations, but the link is partial, not fixed. Learn what attachment science says about earned security and the pathways to steady fathering.
Complex PTSD doesn't feel like a symptom list — it feels like losing yourself. A research-backed guide to what the ICD-11 clusters actually feel like from the inside.
A personal Father's Day reflection for both kinds of fathers this year — the ones waking up to burnt pancakes and construction-paper cards, and the ones waking up to a quiet house. The love does not expire because the day is hard.