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When Your Parent is a Narcissist

A Survival Guide for Teens Living With Narcissistic Parents (Ages 13-19)

The ONLY comprehensive guide written specifically FOR teens (ages 13-19) living with narcissistic parents. Practical survival strategies, legal rights, crisis navigation, relationship skills, and healing guidance in an interactive workbook format with 138 engaging elements.

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About This Book

The first book written specifically FOR teens living with narcissistic parents—not adapted from adult content, but built from the ground up for your experience.

Why this book is different

You're stuck at home with a parent who switches between charming to the outside world and cruel behind closed doors. Teachers love them. Friends don't believe you. You feel crazy, but you're not—you're responding normally to an abnormal situation.

This isn't a book about "dealing with difficult parents." This is survival training for teens whose parent has Narcissistic Personality Disorder.

What you'll get

  • Part I - Understanding (Chapters 1-3): You're not imagining it—clinical NPD explained in plain language. Why no one believes you when your parent is charming to everyone else. How living with this affects you (and why that's not your fault).
  • Part II - Surviving Right Now (Chapters 4-7) CRISIS PRIORITY: Staying safe when home doesn't feel safe. Gray rock technique—how to become "boring" on purpose to reduce conflict. Protecting your mental health with zero money and no permission needed. Finding safe adults and real friends despite their interference.
  • Part III - Navigating the System (Chapters 8-10): Your legal rights in custody battles and when courts listen to teens. Fighting back when they sabotage school, activities, and college. Financial independence and escape planning for age 18.
  • Part IV - Healing and Relationships (Chapters 11-12): Dating and friendships—breaking patterns before they start. You are not your parent—healing is possible.

138 Interactive Elements

  • 38 Real Talk sidebars: Authentic teen voices who've been there
  • 24 Try This exercises: Immediate actionable strategies
  • 18 Myth vs Reality tables: Countering gaslighting
  • 16 Checklists and Quizzes: Self-assessment and planning tools
  • 14 Future You testimonials: Hope from young adults who escaped
  • 12 When They Say This boxes: Decoding narcissist-speak
  • 10 You're Not Alone scenarios: You're not the only one
  • 6 Your Rights legal boxes: Know your legal protections

Crisis-Accessible Design

  • Non-linear navigation: Jump to what you need NOW
  • Quick Find topic index: For emergency situations
  • Three reading paths: Crisis, Sequential, or Topic-Based
  • Short chapters: 15-25 minute reading time each

Written with trauma-informed, teen-appropriate voice. No condescension. No toxic positivity. Just honest survival strategies that actually work.

Table of Contents

Part I: Understanding What's Happening

  • Chapter 1: You're Not Imagining It—What Narcissism Really Means
  • Chapter 2: The Mask They Wear—Why Everyone Else Thinks They're Great
  • Chapter 3: How Living With This Affects You—It's Not Your Fault

Part II: Surviving Right Now (Crisis Priority)

  • Chapter 4: Staying Safe—When Home Doesn't Feel Safe
  • Chapter 5: Gray Rock—How to Become Boring on Purpose
  • Chapter 6: Protecting Your Mental Health—You Can't Pour From an Empty Cup
  • Chapter 7: Finding Your People—Safe Adults and Real Friends

Part III: Navigating the System

  • Chapter 8: When Your Parents Divorce—Custody, Court, and Your Voice
  • Chapter 9: School, Activities, and Your Future—When They Interfere
  • Chapter 10: Planning Your Escape—Financial Independence and Moving Out

Part IV: Healing and Relationships

  • Chapter 11: Your Relationships—Dating, Friendships, and Breaking Patterns
  • Chapter 12: You Are Not Your Parent—Healing and Hope for Your Future

Who This Book Is For

  • Teens ages 13-19 currently living with narcissistic parent(s)
  • Young adults 18-24 recently left NPD household
  • Therapists working with teen trauma clients
  • School counselors supporting at-risk students
  • Family law attorneys representing teens in custody cases

What's Inside

  • 12 comprehensive chapters in 4-part journey (recognition → survival → navigation → healing)
  • 138 interactive elements across 8 types for maximum engagement
  • Part II (Chapters 4-7) crisis-prioritized for immediate help
  • Legal literacy: custody rights, FERPA, emancipation reality, financial independence at 18
  • Gray rock technique with 15+ practice scenarios
  • Safety planning for physical, emotional, digital, and financial abuse
  • Relationship skills taught preventively before trauma bonding patterns set
  • Non-linear navigation with three reading paths (crisis/sequential/topic-based)

Book Details

Pages285
Words74,000
PublisherClarity House Press

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